Saturday, March 22, 2008

Don't Judge people

We should not give each other labels, everyone should be a part of a family, but I guess we do have to play a different part. We do have to stand out in a way that cannot hurt others in any way, physically or mentally. Labels make me feel very sad. How can we judge each other like that? Most labels are put by peoples' appearance.


How dare we judge people for their appearance instead of the beauty of their character? You think you have best friends that will always be there for you, what will happen if another group disliked you, or you won some big reading award, would your friends be ashamed to be seen with you?

What makes a great friend in your opinion? Is it the friend who will share lunch with you and tell you if you have something between your teeth, is it the person who will help you with your homework, tell you to stop cheating, or talking if the teacher does not except that?

Or is it the person that talks back to the teacher, cheats on tests, would never enter a school competition, unless it includes hot guys, hangs out with you only when you have a cute outfit on, and other days just tries to make excuses to hang out with someone else?.

I admit, I do label people sometimes, and I am extremely happy if they, or others that notice point it out to me. I try to change that as soon as possible and make it up to them.

The best way to fight a label is to confront the person, or the group that is labeling you. Explain to them, that every person has their own likes and dislikes, but that doesn't mean they are any different then the other people.

Just because they are not wearing the tightest clothes, or having the juiciest gossip, or news, does not mean they are less valuable or less fun. The people that you call nerds and geeks iyo doqon will be our next presidents and other high-intellectual people.

Therefore think about the next label you lick and stick on a person's forehead. Maybe you should get to know the person better.

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