Marriage Problems

Problems in marriage affect every aspect of your life. It's hard to concentrate at work, it's hard to act carefree around your children, and it's hard to put on a happy face with friends and relatives when you are unhappy and frustrated with your mate or xaakaaga.

If you're experiencing marriage problems, you may have had an evening like this:
You decide - despite the marriage problems - that you're going to try and create a wonderful evening for the two of you. But as soon as your mate gets home, you begin to feel the distance and coldness. Every attempt you make at conversation is met with indifference, hostility or criticism, qaylo iyo ibtilo. "Yeah," "no," or "I could care less" are the only verbal responses you get.

The message from your spouse comes through loud and clear: "I'm not willing to make any effort to connect with you and I could care less about our marriage problems."

You realize that any attempt at conversation is like pulling teeth. You think to yourself, "I knew we had marriage problems, but this is quickly turning into a full-blown disaster. I can't think, I can't sleep, my work is suffering... I give up! I need help if I'm going to solve my marriage problems.or you might say "Alla waan wareeree yaa i caawiya"."

Marriage Problems Can Make You Closer
Every couple is going to have problems in marriage. When that time comes, one of two things can happen. Either you grow closer together as a result of having marriage problems or you grow further apart.

We have to seek help before it too late. Ouyr relatives, freinds and professionals can help us and sshows us the right path if we ask theie help. No xishood wartyaada. let us seek help and solve ouir marriage problems. Sitting there and crying and taah iyo cabaad badan won't help. Good luck jaalayaal and be happy and live life to the fullest.